This is a post to show some appreciation for my most favourite duo partner, the stunning Alissa Thorne. I have been living the secret life of Summer Dahlia for two years now, and meeting and becoming friends with Alissa is one of the best things that has happened on my journey so far.

She is a stunning, intelligent, and thoughtful young lady, who offers her services as a high class escort and dominatrix from her local East Midlands to outcall locations all over the UK.

Some people instantly catch your eye 

When I started my project of becoming an independent Midlands escort, and giving life to my new persona as Summer, naturally one of the first things I did was look through directories, industry websites, and twitter, to research what types of providers and services were already out there, particularly in the Midlands; to get some inspiration; and also to learn about standard practices within the industry.

Alissa Thorne immediately stood out to me. She just seemed a cut above the other escorts in my area. The way she had a sleek and well written website, ads on all the (decent) directories, and lots of interesting posts on her twitter feed, made her seem professional, exciting, and effortlessly classy.

Plus, her incredible figure really caught my attention! Those of you who know me will be well aware of my weakness for stunning women of all shapes and sizes, but especially for petite pretty girls with long brunette hair.

I was intrigued by the fact that she was exactly the type of sex worker I was trying to become, and also slightly abashed by how keen I was to be close to her and see her in person wearing her beautiful lacy green underwear – but then I remembered, it’s actually OK to have those lustful thoughts about escorts you’ve seen on the internet. And so, I became an admirer.

A chance to connect

A few months later, once I had begun my career, been on a few tours, enjoyed lots of dates, and was feeling increasingly confident in my new lifestyle as an independent Birmingham escort, an opportunity arose to connect with Alissa. She made a post on twitter reaching out to network with any new Midlands escorts, potentially with a view to offering duos together, and of course, I was the first to respond.
We got to know each other more speaking online and over the phone, agreed that we would like to offer duo bookings together, and discussed what the boundaries and booking procedure would be if such an opportunity were to arise.

And with great excitement, we received our very first duo booking request only a couple of weeks later! We screened our client – who neither of us had met before – and arranged all the necessary details.

Taking it to the next level

The following dark and cold Tuesday evening, we both headed for a fancy hotel suite in central Birmingham, where we were to spend the evening indulging a visiting businessman from America. As I pulled into a space in the multi-storey car park around the corner from the hotel, I saw a well dressed petite brunette getting out of the car opposite me, and despite never having seen her face before, I knew this was Alissa. As I got out of my car, we exchanged a curious glance, nervously said each other’s work names to identify ourselves to each other, and greeted with a warm smile and a friendly hug.
As we walked round to the hotel animated by our conversation, it quickly became apparent we had a huge amount in common; from food tastes and sexual preferences, to life experiences and political views. I felt at ease with her as soon as we met.

Once upstairs, the evening just got better and better. Our charming client greeted us with a Hotel Chocolat selection for each of us, some cold drinks, and a selection of fresh sushi beautifully laid out on the table – all vegan and alcohol free, as both of us had requested. We spent the first couple of hours nibbling sushi and chatting on the sofa, all of us eager to find out all about the other two, since we were all strangers to each other.

By this time, sexual tension had built up in the room to the point it was a palpable distraction, and all three of us moved on to the huge bed in the room next door. Alissa and I first undressed each other, and then turned to our client and undressed him together.

She was every bit as gorgeous in the flesh as she was on my computer screen. Her body was a perfect size 8, beautifully firm and toned, and her curves looked incredible in her sheer black lace lingerie. I felt like a very lucky lady, as we knelt either side of our client, and enjoyed feeling his gaze as we leaned over his lap and met with a soft, sweet and tender kiss…

That date was the first of many we would enjoy together. Since then, we have spent the night in some absolutely stunning hotels all over the country, usually with a keen but helpless gentleman sandwiched in between us! We’ve also shared lots of vegan dinners (and breakfasts), plenty of alcohol free cocktails, and all sorts of more private delights. We’ve also been treated to a couple of girly spa days together along with a group of other independent escorts, after Alissa introduced me to her friends at the Indie Collective and they graciously admitted me to their ranks.

Friendship is a real blessing 

She has been an amazing lover and a great fun work colleague, but also a role model helping me find my way in a daunting new industry, and a great friend, who has listened when I’ve been upset, and laughed when I’ve had a funny or embarrassing story to tell.

Here’s to lots lots more wild and wicked adventures with you ❤️

Kisses all over…

Summer Dahlia xxx

The last 3 months

Autumn this year brought a change from my normal schedule of touring once or twice each month, as I had done earlier in the year. Staying mostly in Birmingham since the start of September, my focus has been on vanilla work commitments – but it’s definitely not been all work and no play. I have had some exciting (and unusual) dates across the Midlands, a few short but sweet visits to London for the day (or night), and a little adventure further afield with a four day tour in Glasgow at the end of November.
Less time travelling has been a relaxing change and definitely brought peace and calm – when staying in different places often, it can be harder to maintain your exercise routine, eat healthy food, keep a good sleep routine, and even keep track of all your belongings – things that are much easier at home. Spending more time in stunning Birmingham, I enjoyed some dazzling dates across the city; which included several wonderful restaurants, a lot of ice cubes, and an all night trance rave! Expect another blog post soon with a list of my favourite date night spots in the city.

The next 3 months

I will be staying in the West Midlands for the rest of 2023, and available in Birmingham for incall and outcall dates of any length (starting at a minimum of one hour). For outcalls, I will also travel anywhere in England and Wales for bookings of four hours or more, and Scotland for bookings of six hours or more.
From the 21st December until 1st January, I will be available in Birmingham – for outcalls only. Advance booking would be advised for dates during this period.

I will be in the Midlands for the start of the new year too, touring only once in January, visiting London 15th -18th Jan.

I will not be touring again until April 2024 as I have a busy schedule of events outside of escorting in February and March. So if you would like to find time for us to cosy up together on a GFE date this winter, slide into my inbox before my diary is closed!

Schedule

December:

Birmingham 1st-20th (incall and outall)
Birmingham 21st-31st (outcall only)

January:

Birmingham 1st-14th
London 15th-18th
Birmingham 19th-31st

February:

Available in Birmingham and outcalls nationwide – advance booking recommended.

To book a GFE date with me, please go to www.summerdahlia.com/contact

I look forward to your lovely message🧡

Summer Dahlia x

The start of September always seems like a natural time for reflection, goal setting, and what I like to think of as a ‘mental spring clean’. So I felt like sharing some thoughts on my experience so far as an independent Birmingham escort.

What a blast it’s been

To put it simply, the journey (so far) has been incredible. Deciding to become a GFE provider has brought so many blessings into my life, that it’s hard to count them all. I’ve met some wonderful people that have showed me nothing but warmth and affection. I’ve had some intense and exciting sexual experiences that dazzled me, and taught me a lot about my own sexuality. I’ve been treated to nights of luxury in some of the country’s best hotels and restaurants, that will remain treasured memories for years to come. I’ve met some very successful, intelligent, and inspiring men, that make me feel valued and teach me things that have enriched all areas of my life.
Every person that enters any form of sex work must have nerves, misgivings or apprehension when they make the decision to do so, not knowing what lies in front of them. Sometimes in life, you just can’t know if a choice is the right one until you until you take it and see how things work out. And the brilliant time I’ve had since becoming an escort has shown me that it was definitely the right decision for me – one of the best I’ve ever made!

Fears, assumptions, and misconceptions

Before we actually have any personal experience of the sex industry, as a client or as a provider, many of us fancy some very vivid notions of what it may be like; based on films, TV and music. And I’m certainly no exception. So here are some of my fears, assumptions, and misconceptions about escorting that I’m very happy to have been proved wrong about.

1. It’s all about late nights – This might seem like a strange one, but it surprised me initially that many of my dates take place during the daytime. Although I’m a night owl, and don’t mind staying up far beyond a sensible bedtime, it’s nice to have a varied schedule and also enjoy dates during daylight hours.

2. Clients just want you to ‘play a part’ – I did have minor concerns, that many clients would be hoping for a delicate and agreeable nymph more than a real-life girlfriend connection. That they would be happiest if you just turn up looking pretty, and then spend the booking duration smiling sweetly and keeping your thoughts and opinions to yourself. Although I do find it a turn on to be ‘objectified’ in a sexual manner, I was uneasy with the idea of acting like a cute little ‘doll’. As it turns out though, most men are complex, interesting and thoughtful individuals, who are stimulated by the same. During my bookings, I don’t ‘play a part’, I just play myself – only my best, hottest, sexiest self.

3. You lose interest in sex – You know that saying, that if you work in a chip shop, you never want to come home to chips for tea. I have a high sex drive and sex is my chosen vice, so you can imagine my worry that by having a more active sex life than I had done previously, it may affect my desire. The worry was not completely unfounded, as since becoming an escort, my sex drive definitely has been affected – but in a very positive way! Sharing wild sexual encounters with strangers (that quickly become friends) is a very addictive kind of thrill. It has increased my (already quite high) level of confidence in the bedroom, and has increased my skill level too of course – so now I look forward to sexual encounters even more than I did before; feeling relaxed in the knowledge that I have the physical and also the verbal/communication techniques necessary, to make it a great experience for my date, and also for myself. I have realised that a love of sex is a passion you can nurture like any other, and I am always trying to learn new things about it, whether from books, films, or personal experience.

And some preconceptions that are true!

For balance, I should probably say that some of the glittery ideas I had about my new secret life as a (super high class) escort have turned out to be accurate. Here are some pleasing highlights:

1. You get a taste for the finer things in life – If only the broke university student Summer could have glimpsed into the future, to see herself drinking fine wines, eating (vegan) caviar, and being gifted Chanel and Agent Provocateur… I think she would have become an escort all the sooner! Wonderful treats like these are never expected, but they always so appreciated, and they just bring that extra level of excitement to a date.

2. You get to hang around with super hot girls all the time – Wow, what can I say. As a bisexual who loves a threesome, getting paid to get it on with with my stunning escort friends is almost too good to be true. I have met some really incredible women through escorting, who have become firm friends, including a few who have also become my favoured duo partners. And I must admit, I have one or two secret crushes on escorts I haven’t met yet, but very much hope to. Here’s to manifesting those dates.

3. You live a secret double life – I do enjoy this part, although that’s only because we are fortunate enough in the UK for prostitution to be legal, so my secret is not an incriminating one. Long gone are the days when only drug dealers would have two mobiles, and now lots of people carry two (or more) devices, so fortunately using two phones doesn’t lead to any awkward questions. Nobody bats an eyelid when I get an indecent proposal texted to me on my indecent phone, and then I make my excuses and disappear, to get dressed up to the nines, and make my way to my fancy man’s apartment with a handbag full of condoms and sex toys. Once, I met a friend for a cocktail on the way home from a booking, and when the security guard searched my bag on the way into the bar, he surveyed the contents (including stockings, a vibrator, assorted condoms, lube, and £400 in cash) quietly said “I like your style” and let me enter. My friend was none the wiser about what he’d seen…

Lessons I Have Learned

Aside from in depth knowledge of hotel reservation procedures and Ann Summers product ranges, there is a lot to be learned from being an escort. These are some valuable lessons that I have taken away and applied to other areas in life.

1. To be clear and accurate with your marketing – This may seem really obvious, but giving a clear idea through your marketing of who you are, and what you can (and can’t) offer is central to attracting the type of clients you desire, and those who will appreciate your service. I feel my website must give a good representation of what I am like, as I am lucky enough to have the most wonderful clients who I get on with and have lots in common with. I don’t think this is just a lesson to be applied to marketing efforts, but to many situations in life: know what your desires are, and make sure you express them clearly.

2. To create relationships with trusted and respected colleagues – Although new recruits to any industry will be advised of the importance of networking, it’s a different challenge when you are an independent escort. Unless you actively seek out opportunities to connect with other service providers, you could actually go the duration of your escorting career without meeting another escort. Having trusted peers to share your experiences and exchange advice with, is so important. A couple of months into my escorting career I was very pleased to be admitted to the Indie Collective, a friendly network of independent escorts based throughout England, and with that I gained an incredible group of clever, kind and supportive ladies to share my journey with. Thank you ladies 🧡

3. Not to allow people to push your boundaries – This is really an extension of number 1, to be clear what you can (and can’t) offer. Not every client is for you, the same as you are not for every client, and that’s OK. When people ask you to do things or act in a way they know you normally wouldn’t, you should never acquiesce to their demands, because they usually wouldn’t appreciate it anyway, and you would feel the unease of being outside your comfort zone from that point on. Being assertive while remaining polite and friendly is a indispensable skill to master and apply to all areas of your life, and since becoming an escort, I’ve perfected the art of saying ‘no’ to things I don’t want to do!

Goals and Plans for the Future

So far, my new life as a Girlfriend Experience provider has been a dream. As the secret fantasy girl for my clients, most days will be animated by a flirtatious text exchange, a spicy encounter on a date, or at least a filthy daydream about activities indulged in recently! I’ve also ticked off some sexual bucket list items, including being part of a foursome, being blindfolded, and being gifted a sex toy. All three were even better than I expected, so here are some new wish list items that I would love to be a part of my escorting experience over the coming year.

1. My first single female client – I’m sad to say that I have yet to entertain my first solo female client. I have had FF experiences, but never with in an escort/client context, and this is something I would really love to share with a bi-curious, bisexual or lesbian woman. Single ladies… put your hands up!

2. My first MMF threesome – I’m not sad to say that I’ve yet to entertain my first MMF threesome, but it is something I would love to experience at least once in this life! If you would too, let me know. Don’t be shy, come and email it quietly into my ear…
3. My first FMTY – So far, invitations to visit to clients, as well as my own tour plans, have seen me travelling to nearly every corner of the UK. And after spending two years stuck at home with my laptop and house plants, the sense of adventure this brings couldn’t be more welcome. Until now though, I have not been on a FMTY(or TMTY – these stand for Fly Me To You or Train Me To You) date to travel abroad to and meet a client in a foreign land, and that is something I would love to happen over the year to come.

Thank you to all of those who have been a party of the story so far and made it special for me – I hope you have as many amazing memories as I do.

Summer Dahlia 🧡xxx

This is a post giving suggestions about dates I would love to go on in London. Although I am not a permanently London based escort, I’m not far away – and even when I’m not touring in London, I’m happy to travel to the city any time, to join you for a date of 4 hours or longer. Working out how to please a woman isn’t always the easiest task, but I like to remove all the guesswork… so if you want to arrange a date with me that we are both guaranteed to enjoy, pick your favourite item from this list, and email me to ask my availability. I’m excited already x

1. A trip to the Sky Garden (Fenchurch St)

A trip to London’s highest public garden has been on my desire list for the longest time. I’ve actually booked it twice already for a solo afternoon walk, but cancelled both times when other plans came up. If you are a plant lover like me, I would love to share the experience with you instead. It’s open until 6pm during the week, or 9pm on weekends, and there are several restaurants and bars at the top that stay open until late.

https://skygarden.london/

2. Sharing dessert and shisha on the Edgware Road at midnight (Hyde Park)

Edgware Road is home to incredible array of Middle Eastern restaurants, shisha lounges and dessert parlours, that are a hive of late night activity in the middle of Westminster. 

If you don’t care for shisha, instead we can share some falafel, baklava, ice cream, and Turkish coffee. The relaxed late night atmosphere and colourful decor will have us feeling like we are on holiday abroad.

3. The Greatest night of the Jazz Age (Earl’s Court)

This immersive dinner and show experience has attracted rave reviews, and looks like an  evening sure to impress! Inspired by a 1930s new York speakeasy, guests are invited to dress up to attend, and are treated to a live jazz band, performing showgirls, a three course dinner, and prohibition style cocktails. This show will only run until 30th September 2023, so book it up soon.
https://jazzage.thelostestate.com/

4. A night at the strip club (all over London)

Because I’m bisexual, and I love striptease. You can enjoy the pole dance shows on stage, or treat yourself to a private lap dance. I will be doing both.

5. A Burlesque Show (various locations)

Similar to a night at the strip club, this would be a wild evening of cocktails and exotic dancers, but with a vintage theme. Burlesque shows generally take the form of a cabaret performance including striptease, music, comedy, and fabulous outfits. Popular London burlesque shows include Gin House Burlesque (Shoreditch), Proud Cabaret (Fenchurch St), and the Windmill (Soho).

https://www.ginhouseburlesque.com/

https://thewindmillsoho.com/

https://proudcabaret.com/

6. A Dance Class (various locations)

Instead of going to watch other people dance, we could always take a dance class together. This is an amazing way to build up chemistry and tension between us without feeling rushed. We could go to a group class if you are feeling brave, or book a private lesson for a bit more privacy. If we do great dancing together, it will get a whole lot of passion flowing between us – and if we don’t get the steps down perfectly, it will give us a whole lot to laugh about afterwards! I love to try different dance styles, but two classes that have particularly caught my eye are Kizomba (Brixton), and swing dance (Hammersmith/Balham).

https://www.swingland.com/

https://www.kizombaaddiction.com/

7. A Tantric Massage (various locations)

I’ve started learning about tantra this year, and it’s something I am keen to experience more of and learn more about. It is a deep and complex topic, but in essence tantra is an ancient Eastern practice involving the use of mindfulness, breathwork, massage, and sex, to achieve spiritual awakening, understanding of yourself, and connection with others. If you would like to share a tantric experience with me, we can look together to find the best practitioner for us.

8. Share a Luxurious Roman Bath (Covent Garden)

This one would also involve being (almost) naked together and indulging in a relaxing, therapeutic activity. AIRE offer a Roman inspired spa experience including lots of different treatment rooms, steam rooms, and baths at different temperatures, in a beautiful old building lit by candlelight. They also offer massages and sensory experiences.
https://beaire.com/

9. Dinner at a great restaurant (so many to choose from)

Maybe this should have been number one… A very simple but highly effective choice for a date. It’s  so easy to chat, relax, and exchange lots of flirty glances across the table, in the warm and welcoming environment of a nice restaurant. You may have noticed that several of my date suggestions involve nudity or sexual themes, but we don’t have to get up to anything debauched to have a wonderful evening together. I love trying different foods from all over the world, so go ahead and pick your favourite dinner spot for us. If you find it hard to choose, some restaurants I’ve not been to but would love to try, include Mildreds (Soho), one of the UK’s most famous vegetarian restaurants; Bob Bob Ricard (Soho) a very stylish French restaurant and Champagne bar; and Turnips (Borough Market), a fine dining restaurant focussing on seasonal produce.

https://www.bobbobricard.com/

https://restaurant.turnipsboroughmarket.com/

And now you are armed with all the info you could ever need to sweep me off my feet! So if you live in London, or you are visiting soon, make sure to find a few hours for us to enjoy a wild and wonderful day (or night) together.

Summer Dahlia 🧡 xxx