Autumn 2023: Tour Dates for September, October and November

Autumn 2023: Tour Dates for September, October and November

Summer 2023 has been absolutely blazing hot for me, but no thanks to the weather! I have had some of my favourite gents light a fire in me with really incredible dates I’ve been treated to, so a big kiss thank you🧡 Highlights have been a stunning Michelin * restaurant or two, my first (but certainly not last) trip to Glasgow, and my first duo date with the stunning Sienna Hadid… something I had lusted after for a long time, ever since I first laid eyes on her amazing curves at the Indie Collective’s annual spa retreat last year!

Autumn 2023 promises to be every bit as exhilarating as the summer, but my schedule will be a little different to usual. I won’t be touring again until the end of November, due to civvy work responsibilities that are keeping me in Midlands for the next few weeks.

Don’t worry though, I will still find the time to misbehave. I will be available for incalls in central Birmingham, and outcalls across the West Midlands. Whether I’m on tour or not,  I’m always happy to join you for a date in London, or indeed anywhere in England or Wales, but please be advised for dates anywhere more than 2 hours travel time from Birmingham, a 4 hour minimum booking length will apply.

From the end of November, I will be touring again, visiting my favourite destinations including London and Glasgow. Check back soon for more details on tour dates… or hit me up when you are passing through Birmingham!

 To make an inquiry, or to book a GFE date with me, please go to www.summerdahlia.com/contact

 

 

I’m looking forward to flirty, fun and fabulous dates with you🧡

Summer Dahlia x

I’m a first time client, and I’m feeling very nervous…

I’m a first time client, and I’m feeling very nervous…

 This is a post for the first-timers out there: gentlemen (or ladies!) who are new to seeing escorts and may be feeling nervous, or unsure of what the booking procedure and the date itself will be like. You may be someone with very limited experience of sex with a partner, or you may have had lots of partners and relationships, and be confident in the bedroom, but brand new to seeing sex workers.
Either way, you have probably been thinking about it for a while now, looking at the websites of service providers that pique your interest, maybe even talking to friends for advice… and the time has come to dive into the deep end!

Read on for advice on and tips about how to make sure this will be a great experience for you, and for your escort too.

Who should I see?

Probably the most important aspect of planning a great date, is making sure you choose the right escort for you. There are a few different ways to procure the services of a sex worker, from visiting a brothel or massage parlour; or booking an agency escort by calling up an agency; to contacting an independent escort via a directory, social media, or better still, their own website.

Booking an independent escort through their own website will give you a much greater degree of control and personalisation over your experience than any other option. With any professional independent escort, you can clearly see their personality and style shine through from the way they present themselves online, and get a good idea of whether you will feel happy and relaxed spending time alone with them. Also, you know that they themselves have chosen to offer the service(s) described on their site, because they want to – you don’t have to worry about asking “do you really offer X?” or “do you really enjoy Y?” – we are in charge of what we do, and the services we advertise are generally accurate.

And how do you know which services are right for you? There are many different services available from many different escorts, which are sometimes referred to by a confusing array of acronyms! Amongst others, these include GFE (Girlfriend Experience) and PSE (Pornstar Experience) as well as other services such as massage, kink and fetish services, and services that aren’t directly sexual such as cuddling and dinner dates. Most dinner dates do lead to sex afterwards though – it’s an urban myth that some escorts only ever have dinner with their clients. We share much naughtier things than dessert…

As you can imagine, not every date involves strictly one of the services listed, and many will be a combination of two (or more). Choose a provider that specialises in the primary service you are looking for. For those that are new to this, and want to experience the sweetness and excitement of that boy-meets-girl feeling, including kissing, oral sex, and penetration, as well as lots of attention, laughs, and flirty conversation – the Girlfriend Experience is definitely what you are looking for.

How do I book?

So now you’ve carefully chosen your desired service provider… what next? Make sure you read through their website thoroughly before contacting them to book. This will provide information about how they prefer to be contacted (usually phone, text, email, or a contact form).
When making contact to arrange a date with them, be sure to include the details, such as the day, time, location, and your phone number – or else you will not be prioritised amongst the many other inquiries in their inbox. Also take this opportunity to ask any further questions you have about your escort, their service, or the date you are planning – but make sure you don’t ask any questions that are already answered elsewhere on her site, as it won’t make a good first impression.

When you contact me to request a booking (ideally via my contact form or email address) I will respond as quickly as possible – usually the same day or next day – to let you know that I am available, or suggest an alternative day/time if I am not. Once we have agreed on our date, I will send you the instructions for making the deposit, and once I have received that, I will send you the address and parking information for the venue where we will meet, if you are visiting me for an incall; and ask you to send me the hotel or home address I will be attending for an outcall.
Finally, I will specify the time I would like you to send me a confirmation text/whatsapp message, usually either the day before or the morning of our date. And you’re all set!

What do I need to do to prepare? Should I bring anything with me?

To put it bluntly, all you need to do is have a good scrub and turn up. The importance of personal hygiene cannot be overstated here. Make sure you are fresh from head to toe right before meeting your escort. She will be sure to notice the effort you have put in for her, and the session will get off to a wonderful start.
You don’t need to bring anything with you – apart from the appropriate fee and a smile! We will provide everything required; things like condoms, lube, and clean towels. If you have a particular preference with condoms (eg due to a latex allergy), make your escort aware of this well before the booking so she can provide them. Most escorts do not encourage clients to arrive with their own condoms.

Now that you have got a plan in place with your gorgeous date, you can just relax and enjoy the anticipation. Providing sexual services as an independent escort is totally legal in the UK, so neither you nor I will be breaking the law in any way. Even so, there are still many negative portrayals of sex workers in the media, but now you have made plans personally with an independent escort, you can push those stereotypes aside, to focus on the exciting, unique, and charming individual you are about to share a very intimate experience with.

What will happen during the booking?

So they day has finally arrived, and you have sent your confirmation text as requested, washed behind your ears, and arrived on her doorstep at exactly the right time… what happens on the other side of that door?

If you are nervous and would like to chat first, or simply prefer to pace yourself rather than tearing clothes off straight away, then we can sit together and share a drink and a conversation to get to know each other. In a hotel, we can meet at the bar before going up to your room, and in a house or apartment we can get cosy on the couch before heading to the bedroom.
If you are coming for an incall, I will then offer you a shower, and if you have just showered, I will invite you to wash your hands. When I’m coming for an outcall, please ensure there is a clean towel waiting for me to do the same.

And everything that happens after that, shall remain between us…

Do we have to do penetration?

Of course not. There are many different aspects of sex other than this, and we don’t have to be engaging in sexual activities for all (or any) of the booking time.
If you are a virgin, or you are hoping to increase your experience or skill level in the bedroom, seeing escorts is a sensible and healthy way to do this. You can use your experiences with escorts to take control of your sexuality, and build up your confidence by creating the sex life you desire, rather than waiting for your ideal partners to fall into your lap… because usually, they don’t!

You can ask also your escort to answer questions you have about sex, and the bodies of the opposite gender, as well as to give you tips or feedback to improve your performance. There are many ways that a date with us can be an enriching experience, beyond just putting a football in a goal, so to speak…

Now that you are armed with all the information needed to pop your escort cherry, go on and write that booking email, and I dare you to send it 😉

A kiss on the lips…

Summer Dahlia 🧡 xxx

Tour Locations: Spring 2022

Tour Locations: Spring 2022

This post is short and sweet! Simply a list of the locations I will be visiting during March, April and May 2022.
To request a booking, please fill out the contact form to be found at www.summerdahlia.com/contact.
I am available for outcalls across the West Midlands outside of these dates, and overnight bookings nationwide.
Looking forward to meet you in your city 🧡

 

SPRING 2022 TOUR LOCATIONS

Central London 21st-24th February:
Monday 21st Feb
Tuesday 22nd Feb
Wednesday 23rd Feb
Thursday 24th Feb

Birmingham 28th Feb-7th March:
Monday 28th Feb
Tuesday 1st March
Monday 7th March

Cheltenham (Gold Cup):
Wed 16th March
Thurs 17th March
Fri 18th March – fully booked

Birmingham 22nd-29th March:
Tues 22nd March
Weds 23rd March
Thurs 24th March
Sun 27th March
Mon 28th March
Tues 29th March

London 1st-4th April:
Fri 1st April
Sat 2nd April
Sun 3rd Apil
Mon 4th April

Birmingham 11th-29th April:
Mon 18th April
Tues 19th April
Weds 20th Apil
Thurs 21st April
Fri 22nd April
Mon 25th April
Tues 26th April
Weds 27th Apil
Thurs 28th April
Fri 29th April

Cardiff 9th-12th May:
Monday 9th May
Tuesday 10th May
Wednesday 11th May
Thursday 12th May

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FAQs

FAQs

As you’ve probably guessed, this is a list of questions I frequently get asked – mostly about my clients, my services, and booking etiquette. Most of your initial booking questions will be answered in this post. Please use my contact form to ask me for any further information you would like before booking.

 

Do you see black/white/asian clients?
Yes. I would never dream of discriminating based on colour, nationality or ethnicity. If you are hygienic and respectful with a good sense of humour, there’s a good chance we will get on well.

Do you smoke/drink? Can I?
I am a light drinker and do enjoy the occasional cocktail, but usually prefer to stick to soft drinks. I don’t smoke. I don’t mind you smoking (at your place, not mine). I am 420 friendly and don’t mind you bringing a bottle or having a drink or two during our session. Needless to say, if you arrive at your booking clearly under the influence of drink or drugs, I will not be seeing you.

Do you charge any hidden extras?
No, everything we do during our time together is included in the price. I am offering a luxury Girlfriend Experience, not a meal deal.

What if I need to cancel?

If you let me know about your cancellation at least 48 hours before the booking, I will leave it open for you to rearrange any time with in 6 months from the original date. You don’t have to tell me why you are cancelling – life happens. If you cancel less than 48 hours before the booking was due to take place, I will keep your deposit as a cancellation fee. In the unlikely event that I need to cancel, then of course I will return any money paid as soon as I am able to.

I don’t want to include full penetration in our session, but there are other aspects of female company I enjoy, and I still want to see you. Is that OK?
Yes of course, that’s absolutely fine. Every client/escort relationship is unique, we don’t have to check off a list of activities.

Would you ever consider bareback?
Don’t be ridiculous.

Can I shower before/after the session?
Yes you can. Wherever and whenever I am hosting incalls, there will always be shower facilities available for you to use. If you choose not to, I expect you to be freshly showered immediately before coming to see me, and I will expect you to wash your hands on arrival.

What do I need to provide for screening?
For screening I will need you to provide your name and phone number in the relevant fields of my contact form. I will want to have a brief phone call with you in order to confirm our booking, but we can agree the time for this over email – I will never use your number to send you an unexpected text or phone call. Discretion is guaranteed. I do not ask for any ID documents in my screening process for UK bookings.

 

Will you sign an NDA?
I will be more than happy to sign an NDA (Non Disclosure Agreement) for any client who requests it of me. I want you to be calm and relaxed  so you can feel present and enjoy our date to the full. Discretion is guaranteed for all clients, whether they have signed an NDA or not. Professionalism is very important to me. And also, I get turned on by the fact nobody knows about our sexy friendship… I love being your dirty little secret.